Barebackers interested in unprotected sex encounters with a number of guys at the same time find that bareback sex parties are a popular option. Not all barebackers enjoy attending barebacking parties, some prefer more intimate one-on-one sessions with a partner or fuck buddy or in a monogamous relationship structure. Bareback sex parties are not an option for some men, as getting a group of men together to fuck raw can be a challenge particularly for those living in a rural area. For this reason, bareback sex parties are often held in cities or large towns where travel and access is made easier. You can still find bareback parties in rural areas, but the number of participants may be smaller, unless a network of men seeking bareback encounters has been established.
Many bareback party participants enjoy group gatherings for a number of reasons and one is the ability to find a pool of potential sex partners in one convenient location. Another reason is the adrenalin rush resulting from the party atmosphere, where an element of excitement builds for the participants. Being able to connect with other guys who enjoy the raw sex party scene can establish a comfortable environment where the party guests can relax and know they are in the company of others who share a similar interest. Here are the two main bareback sex party environments:
Gang Bangs: One or two men (or more if the party is large) elect to be the bottom for the party and then get fucked by a number of tops. Sometimes slings are used for this type of party, although this is not always the case. At some parties the bottom is regarded as the “cum dump” and will try to take as many loads of cum in his ass as he can.
Orgies: Here you will find a mix of guys who are tops and bottoms, where the sex can be with anyone who takes the interest of another. The mix of partners will change during the party, as guys swap partners and change sexual positions. Guys will find other guys to fuck before moving on and having exposure to a number of different guys during the party.
There is a another type of bareback party which has the purpose of HIV sero-converting participants called “bug parties” or “conversion parties” and these parties will be featured in their own articles, as it’s a serious topic which deserves its own coverage. Bareback sex parties will vary depending on the host and can include a variety of different locations. Sometimes the setting will be at the hosts own home, at other times it may be held at a sex club and quite often a hotel room will be used. Some participants enjoy the party atmosphere because it holds a certain level of anonymity.
There are a number of places where bareback parties are listed. Sometimes word of mouth is one advertising technique which works well, but in many cases listings appear online, at websites such as Bareback.com or BarebackRT.com. Some parties have dress codes, where all participants must undress at the door, while others ban drugs but may allow alcohol, cigarettes or poppers. There are also some parties where guests use blindfolds. Because there are so many variables when it comes to bareback sex parties, this alone can be an aspect which is seen as a turn on, because each party is different.
Due to the large number of sexual partner possibilities, bareback sex parties are regarded as high-risk due to their potential to spread Sexually Transmitted Infections among the participants. Because there are usually many people in attendance at a bareback party, it can be difficult to ascertain whether or not any of the guys have a Sexually Transmitted Infection. The ability to hold a conversation where this can be discussed or checking for any visible signs of Sexually Transmitted Infections can be difficult. The risk can be reduced by holding parties where sero-sorting applies, such as an HIV positive only or HIV negative only party. It’s important to note that in many parts of the world HIV positive people are required to disclose their HIV status before having unprotected sex, which can help those who may not be HIV positive to decide whether or not to proceed with a barebacking encounter.
Some bareback sex parties try to avoid spreading Sexually Transmitted Infections by sero-sorting participants before they arrive. One well-known party which did this before the parties became defunct was Brandon’s POZ Party, which required all guests to be HIV positive to ensure that HIV negative guys were not infected at the parties. Brandon’s POZ Party involved barebacking, but condoms were also made available for those who wished to use them, so the parties weren’t all about barebacking. Many parties require an application process to ensure that participants meet a certain criteria. If all of the participants hold a particular HIV status, then there is less risk of sero-conversion taking place, but different strains of the virus still need to be considered.
There are a number of ways that bareback parties could be made safer for those who are concerned about their sexual health. The party application process could ask potential guests sexual health questions before their application is considered successful. If a question asked guests about any Sexually Transmitted Infections they have, then this information will help the party host determine whether or not the guest meets the criteria set for the party or whether precautions need to be taken. As some Sexually Transmitted Infections are curable, questions need to be asked carefully to highlight current Sexually Transmitted Infections. This could become complex, as some Sexually Transmitted Infections can be cured, many can not and others can be treated so the symptoms disappear but are still transmittable.
If a party host does not want to ask such questions on an application form, then another possibility could be used by party guests when they first arrive at the party. Guests could take the step of identifying their HIV status using colored tape on their biceps to help other guests identify the HIV status of other participants. A color scheme such as green to identify HIV negative, orange to identify those who are not sure of their HIV status, red to identify HIV positive and blue could be used by guests who do not wish to declare their HIV status. For those who do not wish to identify their HIV status, they could choose not to tape their body and other guests would know that guests without tape do not wish to identify their HIV status. If someone is HIV positive, they may still be required to notify potential sexual partners of their HIV status by law depending on their location.
The discussion of HIV status and identifying other Sexually Transmitted Infections is not fun and might be dismissed by some guys attending bareback sex parties. Guests at bareback parties may not be concerned by the spread of Sexually Transmitted Infections and for this reason may be comfortable with the high level of risk which can be associated with bareback sex parties if precautions are not taken to reduce the spread of Sexually Transmitted Infections. For people who may want to experience the party environment whilst also being concerned about their sexual health status, then perhaps parties which set some health standards to help reduce the spread of Sexually Transmitted Infections would be a better option for them.
Bareback sex parties are designed to be a way to have bareback encounters with others in a casual and relaxed setting. Because some guys may not want to get caught up with the health aspects of these parties, they may choose not to attend parties which take sexual health seriously. But if a higher level of concern became the new standard, then it’s possible that guests could adapt to the new standard which would become the norm and then this would help promote some responsibility among bareback sex parties. Some parties already do ask about sexually transmitted infections and some also use methods to identify Sexually Transmitted Infections, but each party is different and sets its own rules and standards.
For a bareback sex party to be successful, a number of rules need to be established beforehand to ensure that all guests have a good time and also know what is expected of them during the party. Because almost all bareback parties have rules to protect guests from the bad behaviors of others, the step of protecting the health of guests would work well towards improving the reputation of bareback sex parties. Bareback sex parties will always be high-risk and cannot be designed to be 100% effective in preventing the spread of Sexually Transmitted Infections, but some steps can be taken to improve the health aspects so that guests can relax and enjoy themselves.
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